‘You have heard that it was said to those of ancient times, “You shall not murder”; and “whoever murders shall be liable to judgement.” But I say to you that if you are angry with a brother or sister, you will be liable to judgement; and if you insult a brother or sister, you will be liable to the council; and if you say, “You fool”, you will be liable to the hell of fire. So when you are offering your gift at the altar, if you remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother or sister, and then come and offer your gift. Come to terms quickly with your accuser while you are on the way to court with him, or your accuser may hand you over to the judge, and the judge to the guard, and you will be thrown into prison. Truly I tell you, you will never get out until you have paid the last penny. Matthew 5:21-26
Jesus is very clear about the importance of reconciliation. Drawing on the traditions of his ancestors, he points us all to a deeper understanding of reconciliation. Even small disputes and hurts are important to be reconciled. None of us like to admit we are wrong but are ready to scream from the hilltops when we consider ourselves hurt or slighted. We are called to a reconciliation that demands a daily self-examination, a daily listening to the truths of others, and daily seeking forgiveness. It is like a muscle that needs a daily workout, flexing and stretching so we are able and ready to forgive and be forgiven.
Gracious Creator, you made us fully human
we live in your image and always fall short
yet you remind us to work for reconciliation.
We do not like to hear how we have failed others
we shut our ears and our hearts to their pain
and lose the love gained in true forgiveness.
Lift us from the world of daily accusations
help us examine our hearts and seek forgiveness
so we can be vessels of your love needed today. Amen.
